1. Solitude
So not only have I been single for about 5 months, but I have none of my loved ones in a 225 mile radius of me, so I’m basically alone. Usually I’m not good at being alone. But lately it has taught me that in order to be with someone or even form relations with people in general,I must be content with solitude first. Slowly but surely, I’m finding that it is quite peaceful to be in the midst of my own chaotic thoughts rather than mine and everyone else’s.
2. Don’t take anything too serious.
OF COURSE I realize life is very serious and ‘YOLO’ and all that good stuff, but I’m young. I realize I have sooo much to learn. But my main theory is sometimes NO reaction is the best reaction. I find that taking things people say personal, or taking people in my life serious could almost always potentially lead to being disappointed. I’m seeing that when people say not to worry about whats out of your control, they are being serious.
3. Maturity doesn’t come with age.
Yes boys mature slower than us gals, but lets be real ladies. Experience is what makes you mature. Because of what I’ve been through and what my personal dream of life is, I can honestly say that I’m more mature than half the guys I’ve dated. (which shows i have poor taste in guys) lol MY POINT is, don’t under estimate the immaturity level of older guys.
4. Mother knows best.
Self explanatory. If you know my mom or you even know me well, you know that I can come to my mom for anything and 99.9% of the time her advice is probably the advice to take. If you don’t take mom’s advice, you will realize she was right and then you’ll have to deal with the “I TOLD YA SO’s”
5. School isn’t everything
While most of my friends attend SDSU and are moving into a new place for the new semesters, and taking summer classes, I constantly find myself feeling like Im not moving at any pace and (unfortunately) like I’m knowledge deprived. BUT Ive come to conclusion school isn’t for everyone. By no means does that imply I wont be building a career. I have goals and dreams –not one involving being a full time student!
6. Not everyone who comes is going to stay.
When they say you wont have the same friends in the years ahead: my gosh they aren’t lying. My only advice to this is don’t trust everyone you meet. People are so temporary is kind of astonishing. Don’t worry, I still have trouble following my own advice.
7. Not everyone has the same heart as you.
I’m sad to say that people don’t always acquire the immediate compassion I do for another human. And I can proudly thank my mama for showing me how it’s done. I am not ashamed, people just catch me off guard when they reveal an icy heart. I dont know what you’ve been through but never let it show. heart > mind
8. That advice that random person gave you in the supermarket is probably very accurate & you should listen.
Being half raised by my grandpa, I have an extra soft spot for elders. Sooooo when an old man behind you in line tells you that you look tired and to smile more, you should probably take a nap and watch a funny video. Life is short. These elderly people may seem a little naive to this generation but in all honesty, I’d rely on an unbiased old man’s advice more than my cousins or aunt’s. That’s just me.
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